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FAQ's about EMO

What is 'emo'?
First and foremost, emo is a genre of music. It's an abbreviation of 'Emotive Hardcore', a genre which reached the epitome of its popularity in the 1980s/90s.
Bands such as Rites Of Spring, Fugazi and Sunny Day Real Estate played emotive hardcore music.
Bands such as My Chemical Romance and Hawthorne Heights are not emo- although they're sometimes lumped in with emo because of their emotional lyrics. Most popular bands which are classified as emo are actually a type of pop punk.

There's also Emo Fashion, which is currently quite popular among young teenagers, which is unrelated to emotive hardcore- it mostly stems from "emo" pop punk, if it has any association with music at all.

Emo has recently acquired some negative connotations- some people associate it with self-harm, suicide, and being whiny and depressed. Some people (who usually proclaim themselves to be emos, or emo kids) are whiny, etc. because they think it's fashionable, and hence there is now an emo 'stereotype'. Stereotypical "emo kids" are generally quite obnoxious people, and more mature fans of emo music or fashion usually avoid them. In fact, most people avoid them.

Help! Why am I being stereotyped?
The best way to avoid being stereotyped is to simply be yourself, and don't say things like "I'm an emo!" or "I hate my life!"
Don't change yourself to follow a trend- if you like emo music and emo fashion, cool. If you like rap music and emo fashion, cool. If you like classical music and punk fashion, cool.
Be yourself.
If you're being stereotyped because of what you wear, don't take it personally. You can't really blame people for jumping to conclusions. The best way to deal with being called an "emo fag", etc. is to simply laugh it off. If you get upset over it, it'll seem as if you're living up to the stereotype. And really. It's not anything to get upset over.

Am I emo?
Well, if you're a fan of emo music or fashion, you can say you're emo if you want. But really, why bother? You don't have to label yourself, so what's the point?
Just be yourself.

Is emo short for 'emotional'?
No it's not. Emotional is short for emotional. Emo has nothing to do with being emotional, although it is a common misconception.
If you are emotional, that's ok, everyone's different. Although I would suggest learning to cope with or control your emotions to some extent, because it'll make life easier. People generally become less emotional as they get older, anyway- a five year old, for example, is much more readily affected by emotions than a twenty-five year old.

Why does Emo-Corner dislike emo kids?
Emo Corner doesn't dislike emo kids. However, our members generally just like the fashion and music. Stereotypical, whiny emo kids are disliked by most members, as they can be rather irritating.
We (the members of Emo Corner) are always happy to help anyone with a genuine problem. But 'hating your life' because you're not allowed to dye your hair by your parents, would not count as a genuine problem. And most people don't like it when others exaggerate their minor problems like that.

Why does everyone hate emo kids just because we're different?
Emo kids aren't 'different'. Have you considered the possibility that people dislike you because you act like you're different?

Why does nobody understand me?
Maybe it's because you're impossible to understand? Some stereotypical 'emo kids' just act, and think, so illogically that they're simply impossible to understand.
Or perhaps, you just don't let people understand you. Nobody can read your mind.

I hate chavs, why are they so mean?
Maybe, if you gave them a chance, they wouldn't be so mean. I've seen "emo kids" behave disgustingly towards 'chavs'. Sometimes, you just need to give them a chance.
Other times, yeah, people can be narrow-minded idiots. If it's just verbal abuse, just ignore them.
If, however, it's physical abuse, tell a responsible adult who can do something about it.

Why is life so unfair?
Life isn't really unfair- if you're privileged enough to have internet access, then you've got it better than a lot of people.
Sometimes, you just have to accept that things happen, and move on with your life.
If you have a problem, you need to do something about it. Don't just mope around wondering why things don't get better- you need to put some effort into life.
Your life may not be perfect, but make the best of what you have.

How do I stop self-harming?
There are two pinned threads about this in the Emo Talk section.

Can emos go to heaven?
I'm not religious myself, but yes- anyone can go to heaven. People who like emo music or fashion are no different to anyone else.


I have a question which isn't answered here. What do I do?
First, read all of the pinned topics in the NEWBIES section, the Emo Talk section, the Gender and Sexuality section, the Broken Hearts section, the Help and Advice section, and the Board FAQ and Suggestions section.
If your question still isn't answered, make a topic about it in the section you think it fits best into.

Thanks.


Posted by NaZrIn at 6:25 AM 0 comments  

Anti Emo Thread: "emo Sucks, None Of You Understand Emo Like I Do, Stop your whining, none of you have real problems, etc."

Planning on posting a thread like this? Please reconsider, all of us pathetic emos already understand that we have no right to whine about our insignificant or imaginary problems, I'm afraid that, should we be reminded of this highly depressing fact but once more, the pain could get to be simply too much to endure and we might all be forced to kill ourselves.
That is all.

But seriously, we get it, we've been told time and again, despite already clearly understanding what is meant by 'emo'. Those who believe emo to be some sort of defining aspect of their character, unique to them, are most definitely in the repressed minority here, and even where they are concerned, your efforts to make them re-evaluate their 'unacceptable' lives will fall on deaf ears. This forum is not devoted to ungrateful, self-important teenagers, it's instead frequented by people who are simply interested in the emo trend or music, or a number who've grown out of an emo phase. The vast majority of us don't consider ourselves 'emo', so any attempt to make us come to our senses or something similar, really is going to waste, your time and energy could certainly probably be put to better use.

Though feel free to make a civilised thread, of sorts, expressing your opinions on 'emo'. I think you'll find that many of us will agree with you.
Many thanks for not irritating us with obnoxious, cantankerous, boring and repetitive threads about how pathetic/[other pejorative] emo is.


Posted by NaZrIn at 6:23 AM 0 comments  

Cutters, A little kick of reality for you

Well first of. If you cut to fit in, or for fun, or for attention. Please by all means cut deeper.

However, if you cut because of shit in your life or whatever. Put down your razor and take a look at yourself and reality.
Why yes cutting can be a release for you, stress wise and give you a temporary high. But it's just an idiotic way to deal with things. You can't go on with your life just cutting yourself because shit gets hard. If you could take grasp of your own life. You could probably find hapiness if you TRIED to. Which is so much better than a high.

Can't stop cutting? Throw your shit away, and make a damn stand to yourself. Not "I want to quit. But it feels good". But "I'm a human being goddamnit, and I have value for my own life". Because from what I hear. Getting over cutting sounds like nothing compaired to Hard drugs. So quit saying you cannot quit. Because if you give yourself the will power and the respect. You can. Need to find a release? Find something creative and positive, rather than self destructive to do. Music, Friends, Instruments, Art. Things like that.
Because people normally cut for the release, if you have nothing really serious you need to release about anymore. Why should you cut? Because being honest here. You may think Cutting is alright now. But in 10 or 20 years. You'll probably regret it for most of your life.
I've gone through with my own self destructive behaviour as a release, and I DO regret it.

Posted by NaZrIn at 6:11 AM 0 comments  

Cutting and Self Harm

General
Firstly.
Identify the reasons why you are self-harming.
Is it
-To fit in?
-To feel 'cool' or different?
-For attention?
-To shock people?
-To 'compete' with other self-harmers, whether online or in real life?
-To block out thoughts you don't want to experience?
-To block out mental or emotional pain or depression?
-As a release of sorts?
-To 'deal' with stress?
-To give you a sense of control over your feelings?
-To stop feeling numb and apathetic?
-To have a way of physically showing people how you're hurting emotionally?

Whatever your reasons, you're not alone in wanting to fit in, or having trouble coping.

But harming yourself is not a constructive way of doing things. Self-harm can release endorphins, which can make you feel happier, but can also be addictive, which is why it can sometimes be difficult to stop cutting, etc.

Stress Or Anger
Exercise also releases endorphins, and it's also a great way of dealing with stress and anger. So it's one viable alternative to self-harm, I know running always makes me feel calmer. You could also try punching a pillow or a punching bag, ripping up paper or something similar, screaming, or dancing fast, if you're feeling very angry, and yoga is an effective way of dealing with stress.

To fit in/Feel different
If you want to fit in (with the emo trend, etc) or feel cool or different, there are far better ways of doing it.
If you are doing it to feel cool, it can be difficult to accept that that is the reason you're self-harming. At least consider the possibility, and try to be honest with yourself. Don't get defensive- if you have been cutting for this reason, isn't it better to admit it to yourself? You don't have to tell anyone else, and there's no need to be ashamed. You have made a silly mistake, but there is no use in feeling angry with yourself. The best thing to do, in this case, is to simply take control. Put it down to experience (a bad experience, granted) and put it behind you. There is, I repeat, absolutely no need to be ashamed of yourself. Everyone makes mistakes.
The need to feel cool or different or special to such an extent can be related to poor self-esteem. Be proud of who you are. You are your own unique person, and you don't need to follow trends, or in this case harm yourself, to stand out or be special. Have respect for yourself, and so will everyone else. I used to self-harm for this reason (among others- I had serious self-esteem issues) when I was younger, and while I regret it, I've put it behind me and moved on with my life. And so can anyone- just realise that you are special and worthy of other people's respect. Pick a good role model, identify what you respect about that person, and aspire to have those traits or abilities yourself.

To Shock People Or For Attention
This also relates to a lack of self-esteem. If you feel you are overlooked, under-appreciated or ignored, or that you 'fade into the background', it can lead to self-harm, as you feel you need any kind of attention- even if it's negative. That's where shocking people comes into it- you feel you need any kind of attention.
Self-harm is not the way to go about getting attention. I'm sure that, deep down, you know that too.
I know how it can feel to be ignored- it feels awful. You feel worthless-

"why would anyone care about me?"

"why would anyone want to talk to me?"

"why would anyone value my opinion?"

I've been there, I know how it feels to think of yourself as inferior.
And if people accuse you of cutting for attention it can feel even worse- especially if they're sanctimonious and take on a holier-than-thou attitude.

So I'm not going to preach at anyone here. But I will say this- you are not inferior. You are just as good as everyone else. Find something you're good at- if it's not sport, art, or music, maybe you give great advice. Maybe you're great at listening when a friend needs to talk. Perhaps you're fantastic at debating. Not everyone's talents are clearly evident, you just have to be open-minded about everything and be willing to try anything once.
Again, respect yourself and other people will too. You don't need to engage in self-destructive behaviour to get attention. You're better than that.

To Block Out Emotional Pain Or Thoughts
In this case, you might benefit from professional counselling.

I'll try to advise you as best I can though. If you're finding it hard to cope with life in general, or specifically with emotions/thoughts, you need to identify exactly what the problem is.
Sometimes people who have been abused in the past blame themselves for what happened, and use self-harm as some sort of punishment. If this is the case, you need to realise that what happened was NOT your fault, regardless of whatever anybody tells you. You did NOT deserve it. Anybody who tells you otherwise is in need of a good serving of reality.
You don't have to let the actions of someone else ruin your life- all you can do is put it behind you and move on with your life. Easier said than done, but you have to try.

If people try to insult you, etc. just remember that really, they do not matter. When people throw around insults and abuse, really, they're just showing the kind of people they are- it doesn't say anything about the people they try to insult. The opinions of the kind of people who abuse others lose all validity- in the bigger picture, abusive people just fade into the background. By rights, nobody should give them a second thought.

If you're cutting to block something out, just remember that there are better ways of dealing with things. Cutting doesn't solve the underlying problem- you're going to have to address it sooner or later. And honestly- the sooner the better.

For A Sense Of Control Or To Stop Feeling Numb
If you're feeling numb or apathetic and just want to feel anything, cutting isn't the way to go. It's a really dangerous way of dealing with this.
One safe way to feel something is to put a rubber band around your wrist and snap it, but not so hard that it bruises. Or you could hold ice cubes in your hand and try to crush them or take a cold shower. Or chew something with a very strong flavour, e.g. chilli peppers- this can be a good one, as it's likely to make you laugh, and it's been proven that laughing makes you happier.

If you feel you need something you can control in your life, instead try taking control of your life. How you can do this differs on a case-by-case basis, but just remember that there is no shame in needing help. We all need help sometimes, if you feel stuck, or lost, or that you just don't know what to do, talk to an adult you trust. If you're young, it's very unlikely that your friends will be able to help you...but, they might be able to encourage you to seek help. If you feel you really can't talk to anyone other than a friend, make sure it's someone who is trustworthy.
Or if you just can't bring yourself to talk to anyone in real life, our help and advice section might just help you if you post about the problem there- don't exaggerate, though, and try to explain as calmly as you can. That'll help us to give you the best and most relevant advice we're capable of.

Competing With Other Self-Harmers
If you're doing this, I think you just need to take a step back and look at what you're doing. What do you achieve by this? This can be particularly dangerous- you don't want to kill yourself, but there's always a possibility that you accidentally could. You also pose a serious risk of paralysis if you cut too deeply. Can you imagine how awful it would be to be paralysed in one arm for the rest of your life? All because you felt compelled to win at self harm? If you really feel the need to win at something, make it something constructive, something that's actually of some worth. A sport, a musical instrument, heck- a game of monopoly!
I think the most important thing to realise in this case is that you're not really winning anything by cutting deeper than other people- all you're doing is hurting yourself and the people who care about you.

To Show People How You're Feeling On The Inside, Or To Have Some Sort Of Tangible Evidence Of Your Feelings/Emotions
You need to tell someone! If you feel that people don't understand you, help them to understand.
Talk to someone about how you're feeling- be it a counsellor, a parent, a religious leader (rabbi, priest, minister, etc) a teacher or a trusted friend.

General Self-Harm Related Tips
-Tell someone who lives with you that you are self-harming, and explain why. Make sure that they understand that you want to stop, and that it's not their fault. You may feel so paranoid that they'll find you cutting that you'll stop altogether.
However, if you feel that you have the willpower to stop cutting by yourself, and especially if your parents absolutely would not understand (e.g. If they have expressed hatred for self-harmers (although that's taking it to an extreme)), it may not be the best idea to tell them. Instead, turn to a teacher or another adult you trust, if you need help.

-By self-harming, you're not just hurting yourself, but all the people who care about you too, when (and not if) they find out. They will find out eventually.

-Cutting becomes addictive because of the endorphins it releases. If you feel you're addicted, it's best to seek help.
Exercise does release endorphins too, though, so it may be a way to help deal with the addiction. Like all addictions, though, it requires willpower to quit. But you CAN quit. Don't just try to quit, just quit. Throw away whatever you're using to cut yourself, and just don't cut. It might be hard, but you CAN do it.

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